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Sunday, November 4, 2012

AURAT SHADI K BAD


AURAT SHADI K BAD

NIKAH:
jb lakri balig ho jae to aprents per lazim ha
k
koi munasib rishta talash kr k us ke shadi kr dein.
rishte ki talash me khas tor pr is bat ka dehan rakhna zarori ha
k
kisi badmazhm se rishta na hony pay


HADITH

Hamare Pyare Nabi sallallaho alehe walehewaslm ne frmaya:
Aorat se shadi krny me 4 cezen dekhi jati hein

(1) Dolatmandi
(2) khandani sharafat
(3)Khubsurti
(4)Deen dari

likn tm den dare ko in sb cezon me mukadam samjho
sahe bukhare:
kitabul nikah 67 babul ikfa'fedeen(16) rakumul hadith 5090 jild 3 page 429

Aulad ki tamana
or
apny ap ko badkari se bachany ki niyet k ly nikah krna sunnat ha
or
bht bare ijr-o-sawab ka kam ha.
Allah Pak ne Quran shareef me irshad frmaya ha k:


(surah Noor 32)


وَأَنكِحُوا الْأَيَامَی مِنكُمْ وَالصَّالِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ وَإِمَائِكُمْ
"yani tm log be suhr wale aorton ka Nikah kr do or apny neek chalan gulamon or londyon ka bhi nikah kr do"

HADITH

Allah Pak ne 3 shaks k zimedari apny zimy kr li ha:
(1) Ak wo gulam jo apny Aqa se azad hony k ly kisi Qadr raqm ada krny ka ahd kre or apny ahd ko pora krny ke niyet rakhnta ho

(2) ALLAH ki rah me jehad krny wala

(3) Nikah krny wala ya Nikah krny wali
jo nikah k zare haram kari se bachna cahta ho

Jma-e-Tirmizee, Kitabul jahad, jild3, page 247

Aurat jb tk shadi nahi hoti
Maa Bap ki beti kehlati ha
magr
shadi k bad wo apny husbnd ki BIWI ban jati ha
or
is k fariz or zemedaryan pehly se barh jaty heon
or
tamam huqooq or faraiz ka ada krna Aurat ke sb se bara fareza ha.
Aurat agr husbnd k huqooq ko ada na kre gi
to
is k dunyave zindagi bhi tabah-o-barbad ho jae gi
or
akhirt me bhi wo dozakh ki bharakte hoi agg me jalti rahy gi
or
wo dono jahanon me zalel-o-khwar ho gi
ye sb is lye k
sharyt me hr Aurat per farz ha
k wo apny shoher k huqooq ko ada krti rahy
or
umer bhr apny husbnd ki farma brdari krti rahy